Feel supported… Heal… Be happier!
Intuitive Counseling and Kinesiology Sessions for Women!
BENITA FRENCH is a relationship expert and also specializes in healing pain from your childhood. Her clients are women looking to feel understood, believed in and supported with regards to their emotional state and related demands. Benita offers unprecedented support so that the feelings of possibility, openness and peace achieved within your session can continue to expand into your life.
Appointments available via Phone 0419 147 036, Skype or In-Person (Eltham, Melbourne)
Restore Your Feminine Spirit
BENITA’S CONSULTATIONS involve an intuitive reading and counseling segment, to explore your situation and identify areas of stress or pain, followed by a kinesiology healing to help remove the negative energy from your mind, heart, and body.
“You will end the session feeling lighter, clearer and happier.”
Most of Benita’s clients book on a regular basis and have had a reading or some kind of natural therapy before. No one listens to you like Benita! Together you’ll will unlock and correct the negative patterns in your life.
A WOMAN’S STORY
Benita’s Story and why she committed to helping you…
While I gained some valuable experiences in my family growing up and I didn’t want for anything, I also experienced emotional trauma in the form of emotional neglect. Amidst other instances, when I was 11 years old I saw my best friend from primary school killed on the road where we lived. I never received any of the support or attention that a trauma like that deserves. My parents were always fighting and I was regularly counseling them through their marital problems as a child and teenager.
I virtually had no friends through high school and would generally return home to observe my parents constantly prioritizing the needs of my relatives over me. I didn’t feel important. I was treated with the attitude of “Benita will be OK, she can cope by herself”. But I wasn’t coping. My parents would constantly threaten to break up and I was constantly living with the anxiety of ‘would it happen this time’. By the time they did separate when I was 19 years old, I was fully relieved. I didn’t realize it then, but I copied all the disrespect and chaos I learned from my family, into my relationships, my life, and the choices therein.
“I copied all the disrespect and chaos I learned from my family, into my relationships”
In my romantic relationships, I was emotionally neglected and psychologically abused in every way and on every level known to a woman. I was tricked into thinking that I had something wrong with me and that I alone was responsible for all the problems that we had. I put in endless effort, I was stressed to the max and was forever anxious. I received almost no support from one parent and the other parent took ‘his’ side. Luckily, my cat was there to love and comfort me. I never would have survived without her!
“He”, whomever I attracted at the time, never wanted to talk about our problems, he never had empathy for my experience and he wanted his way all the time. I was shut out of the house, I was shut out with silence, manipulated with mind games and a withdrawal of intimacy when I didn’t cooperate with his selfish and controlling ways. I didn’t feel valued and I never received an apology. I could never tell anybody the full story because either nobody cared enough, nobody understood enough or I felt too ashamed about the whole situation. I was barely making ends meet. I was struggling to keep my business running and I was living and working alone at home. It felt like I was living on a remote, forgotten island in terms of how isolated I felt.
MY LIFE TURNED AROUND when I started working on the realization I had about copying and pasting my childhood conditioning patterns into all my relationships. I extensively worked through these childhood pains and self-healed the trauma through a disciplined daily routine of study, deprogramming, healing and meditation.
After about 20 years of generally unsupportive men, I attracted a beautiful man into my life. He was a brand new pattern! He understood, nurtured and supported me in every way that I felt could exist. I thought it was absolutely impossible to have somebody fulfill my extremely long list of emotional, creative and spiritual criteria for a relationship, especially as I had my self-esteem knocked hard to the ground.
Much to my amazement ‘THE ONE’ did exist. I grew happier. I grew into who I really was because of the constant respect and belief from my new partner. His devoted love and support helped me remember what I had virtually forgotten about myself: that I was worth it!
I desperately want to help every woman I can, heal from the past and find complete happiness, as I did. This process begins with support!
Heal Your Physical, Emotional and Energetic Self.
Benita combines multiple readings, energy healing, and intuitive counselling into unique phone and in-person sessions specifically for women.
“I call Benita regularly. Since I’ve been calling her, I feel I’ve grown a lot. I feel mentally different and I’ve realized that I don’t have to put up with bad behaviour. I feel empowered: I never thought I’d use that word!”
“When the world spins for me from time to time, Benita’s non-judgmental attitude, clarity, reassurance and constantly relevant advice, provides me with a positive framework for life’s decisions. I trust her. Most importantly, Benita helps me believe that I can achieve what I strive for in life.”
I really like calling Benita, she’s just a miracle worker, I feel so blessed to have found her. I don’t know how I would have coped without the sessions. Buried issues emerge out of nowhere. I’m left with a sense of lightness.”
Thank you Benita for your wonderful support and your helpful service. I’m grateful for your wisdom on my life’s journey. Keep helping people because you’re good at it!”
“Benita gave me the most amazing insight for where I’m at.”